where do you draw the line with family ?

by roxanna Wed Sep 15, 2010 6:30 am

some of my family members are driving me nuts !! Shocked

i'm tired of being the peace keeper and have reached the point that i don't care if i never again hear from those, but... i know i care ...communication is not an option, i've tried to hard for to long so what next ?? $don\'t know$

by Breezey Breezey Wed Sep 15, 2010 7:05 am

I think that's something you have to decide for yourself, what you can live with for a decision.

My family... I don't talk to any of them, except one sister. I am not exaggerating when I say they will bring anyone down around them and they don't treat family any different than anyone else they can use or abuse.
My sister tries to be on terms with all of them and it isn't working. She is finally learning... after many years... that sometimes, you have to step back and let it go.

by Tater Salad Thu Sep 16, 2010 2:56 am

Sometimes you just have to say enough is enough, and allow them to settle their differences among themselves.

by Ja'aj Thu Sep 16, 2010 4:38 am

Hi, Rox,
I think Tater is right... can you explain to them that they
are all your family and being in the middle is too much and
that as of now! you won't be put in that position any more?
They love you; that should make them work it out - or not -
without making you crazy any more. I hope. ?
HUG };>

by roxanna Thu Sep 16, 2010 4:51 am

Thank you breezey, Tater, Jaaj ,you have devinately given me food for thought ,maybe honesty is the best policy here , and those who don't like it ,well...to bad !!

by Ja'aj Thu Sep 16, 2010 12:08 pm

(((Rox))),
Sometimes you've got to protect yourself.
If you don't you can't be there for anyone.
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