Do most people know why you don't talk to them?

Do most people have a clue why you don't talk to them anymore? Do you have a clue when someone quits bothering with you?

Why do you ask? Have you heard something? [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

Seriously ...? [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] You know me well-enough to know that
very few people I am purposely not speaking with have
doubts as to why. [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
Mostly, it happens (with me) just out of pure "lazy"
more than any else, I think. Not calling long-distance; not
keeping up when/if one of us changes jobs, or MARRIES..[You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
(THAT! really hurts my feelings.) I have never - would! never- [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
lose a friendship that way.

Usually, if I am not talking to someone, they can look at the last bad or rotten thing they did that involved me. If it's not that obvious, I'll tell them why.

When I get married, you'll have to put up with hearing all about it! lol You won't get rid of me that easily!

there is hardly any body that i don't speak to,the one or two in that category are to destructive,and it's self preservation (emotional)on my part.
If somebody doesn't want to speak to me , it could be ages till the penny drops,i tend not to take things personally, ergo : miss it when it was intended that way.

Hi! [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] Rox,
Clever girl... I bet it makes 'em nuts! [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
Hi [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] Bree,

I see... [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

breezey, when you get married, i not only expect to hear all about it but to see lots of photos as well !!

Haha!! Photos! Make sure you remind me.... BEFORE.. the big event! lol I seem to forget what a camera is and Ja'aj is always reminding me!!

Bree,
It's not a problem - I SO HAVE THAT!
And the reason I remember to remind you is cuz I
don't see you every day and the only way! I'll ever
know about anything in your life is the pics (bless your heart! [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
that you send me.
Greg is an only child - and my phobia of cameras
(pointed in my direction) is so acute! that I don't / won't
have one on the place! I'm not kidding.
Except for his school pics I have almost NO
photos of Greg between the ages of 3 or 4 and
about age 15 or so - when his friends started taking pics of him!
I NEVER think of it!
Oddly... (?) I met my 2nd husband when he hired me to work
for him (He's a photographer) as his model.
(THAT'LL! learn 'im. [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.])
Greg also worked as a photographer's model in Scottsdale...
he enjoyed it every bit! as much as I did.
I REALLY! hate having my picture taken! and some damned
fool always! says, "I think it looks just like you"
(That's! what I'm afraid of - thankyouverymuch!)
Anyway, I'm very grateful to you for the pics you share with me!
BTW... [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
Speaking of your wedding - [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] if I can't figure out a way for
me to be your cyber-maid-of-honor I suggest you assign a
dEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER! now - any even if I figure it out!)
cuz I'm with Roxanna - PICTURES!! will be required! [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
Please.

Maaaybe I should "mention" the reason for agreeing
to be a photographer's model - under the circumstances...?
Do you know! what it pays?? [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
It pays VERY well and we were Air Force at the time.

ok JJ !! let's see some of those photos !!+
NOW !!!

Well now, Ja'aj... seems your problem child cohort wants pictures. When can we be expecting to see those?

I haven't any of them.[You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
Little Jimmy Jewell kept all of them as part
of his portfolio. I never even thought to ask for any.

Hmmmmm....[You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

Pinky swear.

As a kid, I was painfully shy. So, out of pure shyness I didn't do much talking. But I grew out of that (for better or worse you may say!) I'm probably STILL rather shy around people I don't know, but I'll talk to any friendly face! And, of course, there are times when you have to observe that old quote:
"Better to let them wonder
why you DIDN't talk ... than why you DID!"